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Stephen R.
Kuder, S.J.
August 1, 1942 – August 5, 2021
Rev. Stephen R. Kuder, S.J. died August 5, 2021 in Spokane five days after his 79 th birthday. Steve was a Jesuit for 61 years and a priest for 48 years, he served primarily at Gonzaga University, and St. Aloysius Catholic Church where he began his service in 1977. His Catholic faith was nurtured by his family and education at St. Augustine's Catholic grade school and parish, Gonzaga Preparatory School, Gonzaga University and his Jesuit training.
During his many years of ministry, Fr. Kuder was a teacher, administrator, spiritual director and preacher. His intelligence, depth of wisdom and ability to articulate the mission of Jesuit education was the gift he brought to his students, colleagues, the Gonzaga University Board of Trustees and the boards of the various Jesuit high schools on which he served. Fr. Kuder's gifts and generosity extended beyond education to his preaching and pastoral ministry which affected generations of Gonzaga University students and parishioners of St. Aloysius Church as well as the wider community. His pastoral ministry that included many baptisms, weddings and funerals consistently nourished Fr. Kuder and brought him joy.
To the many who knew him, Steve is often described as a big-hearted man, who was full of life and love, quick to smile and tease, with an infectious laugh. The constant message throughout his teaching and preaching was the importance of embracing God's love, exuding joy and remaining grounded in faith. Steve lived a life of integrity rooted in deep faith and hope, and a willingness to follow Jesus into the joy of the Resurrection.
Through his years as a Jesuit, Steve was lovingly committed to his Jesuit brothers, and was quick to bring his wit and humor to any Jesuit rec room or dining room conversation. His fierce loyalty also extended to his many friends, both old and new, and the many families that considered him part of them.
Steve was blessed by a large, loving, Catholic family, that sustained him in his vocation as a Jesuit priest. The oldest of seven siblings, a loving son, and a beloved brother and uncle, he is preceded in death by his parents, Aloys and Inez Kuder, and his brother Phil Kuder. He is survived by sisters Mary Beth (Dave) Celio, Marguerite (Mike) Busch, Ann Kuder (John Russell), Jan (Creigh) House, sister-in-law Toni Kuder, and brother John (Celeste) Kuder. He was uncle to 24 and great uncle to 44.
Funeral services are open to the public and will be held at St. Aloysius Catholic Church on Gonzaga University's campus. The vigil is Sunday August 15 at 7pm, and the Funeral Mass is Monday August 16 at 11am, a reception hosted by Gonzaga University will follow. In order to protect Fr. Kuder's family and Jesuit community, attendees are asked to wear masks. There will be a public viewing on Saturday August 14, 3pm to 5pm at Madonna della Strada Jesuit Community chapel, 323 E Boone Ave. Spokane, 99202. Donations may be made to the USA West Province, Society of Jesus.
Madonna della Strada Jesuit Community Chapel
3:00 - 5:00 pm
St. Aloysius Catholic Church
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St. Aloysius Catholic Church
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